Sunday, May 3, 2009

!!Con"Graduations"!!

The excitement for this trip is what got me through this last year-- pushing to finish independent study courses and making it through my first trimester of sickness! It was fabulous, everything I had expected!

Here is a tid-bit of what Dan wrote and sent out to several news papers in Utah (which was picked up by The Daily Universe):

"My wife, her mother and her sister will all be graduating from the BYU College of Family Life with a B.S. in Marriage, Family and Human Development this April. While it is extremely unique to have three family members graduate at the same time and in the same program I am sure it is much more unique for it to be a mother and her daughters, especially ones who have each worked hard for a long time to graduate..."

So, Dan and I left Jacob and Tess with his sister in Virginia and spent 3 full fabulous days in Provo celebrating!

We arrived late Tuesday night and were greeted by my mom and brother, Ken came all the way from CHINA just for me (well mostly for my mom :).

On Wednesday we spent the morning at the Missionary Training Center with my parents. This is their third mission together and the start of their third year at the MTC. Though I cried when Dad told me in December that they were asked to stay for another 2 year mission, I am truly happy for them and SOOO proud of them. I couldn't resist making them pose for this picture.

After a yummy meal in the cafeteria Mom, my sister Lizzie, Dan and I picked up our graduation costume and then hit the mall to find me a graduation dress and comfy shoes. (Dan was so good to me this trip, it was truly all about me!) Then Wednesday night all my Utah family came up to the house to enjoy the scrumptious dinner made at my request (truly complete with rice krispy treats for dessert and the fun suprise of another unexpected brother!!).

Thursday morning we decided to go to the temple. I am so grateful to have all my family members endowed! After a quick lunch we got ready and headed out the door for commencement! It was SOOO fun to wait in line, walk in line, and just be goofy and happy with my sister and mom. During the processional in we wore 2009 HOT PINK glasses I found at Target. The best part was when we paraded in front of the BYU President/Administration and PRESIDENT UCHTDORF! My mom quickly took her glasses off when she saw President Uchtdorf....which made Lizzie and I and President Uchtdorf laugh! After commencement we met up with my Uncle Pete (my mom's brother who works for BYU with the best job EVER!) and the rest of the famly for pictures.

I thought it was appropriate to put numbers on our hats: Mom #1, Me #2, and Liz #3!
It made it easy for the family to spot us!

Emily and Ben with their 4 kids, Brad, Dan, Aimee, Dad, and Ken

Lizzie, Mom, and Me

Dan has been so supportive and has believed I could do this every step of the way! Thank you for helping me finish and making this trip a special one!!

I thought the gown did a pretty good job at hiding my pregnant belly.

After taking a ton of pictures we headed out to eat at Los Hermanos. My sister Emily thought ahead and reserved us a private room! By this time in the trip all 8 kids had flown in! My favorite part of this short trip was enjoying ALLl of my siblings, for the first time in 5 and 1/2 years! Two of my brothers completely suprised my Mom by coming (one from CHINA, the other came from Arizona but after his wife just had their 6th child!!!) I missed seeing two of my sister-in-laws (Ali, and Dona) and all my nieces and nephews but LOVED being together with those who could come.

Friday was Convocation! Unfortunately I was not feeling too well all morning so I was VERY happy to have my mom and sister taking care of me, fanning me, during this part of graduation.
Here is a picture of us waiting to walk in. Notice the medal around my sister's neck. Let me just tell you how incredible she is. Out of 4,000 bachelor degree graduates my sister was one of about 50 to graduate with HONORS! This requires a ton of extra work, including publishing a thesis, on top of a great GPA! She truly is amazing! This is not the end of school for her either. She is hoping to get into LAW SCHOOL next year. She has high hopes of being a JUDGE one day!

Look at that gorgeous, SINGLE, honors graduate!

Here is a video of us walking across the stage to recieve our "diploma's".... Of course the Dean of our college, who was conducting, said no individual cheering and told everyone to remain "reverant" until the end. Sure enough during the first half of the "walking" no one clapped or cheered. Well, anyone who knows my husband or my family knows that that is impossible at a CELEBRATION like this!! The background music was so boring! Lizzie made me laugh when she commented that it sounded like what they would play at our funerals! We agreed that someone need to add some excitement to the place...okay, now watch the video! I walk first, then Liz, then Mom.




From that point on everyone cheered, clapped, hooted, and hollered!

Some of the gang after convocation.

After convocation we had a little party up at the house and ate lots of yummy food. It was so fun to see most of my aunts and uncles and grandparents. I know my mom felt so loved by her siblings support!

After the extended family left we had yet one more surprise for mom. My sister Emily had the great idea of awarding mom with "honorary doctorate degrees". We gave her 10 degrees and went into some details about why she earned each of them. ( Doctorate in Theology, Psychology, Travel and Tourism, Culinary, Communications, Masters in Fine Arts ect.)

My Dad and brother Steve getting us started on the Honorary Doctorate Ceremony.
Dad has a graduation gown on with a TOWEL to make him look like a "dean" at Breinholt University.

We had a great time honoring mom, telling her how much we appreciated her efforts throughout the years, and expressing our love to her. Dan perfectly explained my moms accomplishment when he wrote, "So, after 20 moves, two wars, 3 missions, 8 children, 20 grandchildren (soon) and about 40 years, her life has come full circle and she is finishing what she started. Susan has truly been an example of the BYU motto "Enter to Learn, Go Forth to Serve". We are so proud of her....."

Each night while we were out there we played games, talked and laughed together. (I didn't want to miss out on all of the fun so I laid on the floor and listened with my eyes closed at times:) I love my family so much, they are a ton of fun!

(Between all 8 kids we have a ton of fun pictures. I will post more later once I get them!)


12 comments:

The Pickled Red Herring said...

OHHHH my goodness, Becky, look how much FUN YOU HAD!!! This looks like the BEST TIME EVER! I am so jealous! I want to graduate again, with my mom & sister! Maybe we will go back to school just so we can have a fun graduation trip like you did! It looks like you had an amazing time, and that is so cute that you just had fun with it! (Frankly, graduations can sometimes be boring! Mine was!) ConGRADulations to you!!!

Shauna said...

Wow Becky what an amazing and wonderful accomplishment. And what a blessing that you got to share it with your mom and sister. I loved the story about your 2009 glasses. Your mom sounds so cute!

I would love to get together with you too. Jeff has constantly been telling me how impressed he is with Dan, and how much he enjoys spending time with him. Plus we need to get those bows made. :)

The Dragonfly said...

After already looking through ALL the pictures on Liz's facebook page, I was so glad to get a detailed write up from you of your adventures! How amazing - how fun! Your family is a riot.

And of course, way to go Becky! I am so proud of you, Liz AND your mom. She is an incredible woman and someone I will always admire and look up to.

I hope you're feeling well - I just took a quick trip to CA a few weeks ago and it wiped me out. Take time to rest and relax now that you are officially no longer a student!

Much love,
Samantha

Anie said...

CONGRATULATIONS Becky!!!! What an AWESOME accomplishment! And how fun to share it with your mom and sister! Sounds like your weekend in Utah was more than FABULOUS! Your family reminds me a lot of mine! YOu guys seems VERY close and have TONS of fun together! There's just nothing better than being together with all the people you love! That's amazing that ALL your siblings were able to be there- including flights from China and everything! I've been dying to hear the details of your trip, so thanks for the great post!! :)

A said...

That is so Awesome!!! Congrats on finishing. So happy for you guys and we miss you.

tylerandmommy said...

I read the WHOLE thing. Thanks for putting in so much description so it felt like I was there. I am proud of you girl! Way to go get yur knowledge on. :)

B said...

WOW! What a party! I'm so glad you have such a wonderful family. How cool that you were able to finish those degrees together and what an awesome legacy you have established for your posterity! I love that your family is proud and was able to honor your AMAZING efforts to finish! Way to go! You ROCK! Love ya!

Novak Caboose said...

I can't believe your done! I remember how hard to worked on all this! What a great example you are setting. I really do think of you anytime I complain about school and how "hard" it is!
Miss you! Love ya

Celeste@MomBodFitness said...

What an incredible experience. Truly a family of perseverance (sp?) I loved watching the video..you know everyone in the audience understood why it was soo deserving to cheer! Can't wait to see you guys next weekend. Yeah for us!

Karen said...

that was so fun to read :o) congratulations, becky! like most things worth something, you appreciated it so much more because you had to work so hard for it--you are amazing!!!

The Queen Vee said...

Becky,
Thanks for this great graduation report and photos. I'm teary eyed and smiling all at the same time. You are right, your family is tons of fun and I love them too.

I'm so proud to say that I know such outstanding BYU grads as Susan, Becky and Liz.

Congratulations to all of you!

Shellie said...

I'm so proud of all of you! I'm sure that was an amazing moment to be there with your family and I love the "reverence" that they showed during graduation-but who can blame them? :) I miss all of you and am glad to see how well you're doing! We'll be in MD during the second weekend in August, so maybe we'll get to see you! Love you guys!